Update i did this post last night then fell a sleep so I'm posting it today . I do know it is tuesday !I am alive if any one was concerned or worried, It has been quite a hectic month , I should say , between raising a toddler,and a pre -teen NOT REALLY BUT SHE THINKS SO , SO WE SAY PRE TEEN AROUND HERE. You need to learn what battles to fight , ahem who is going on the age of 10 more like
Enough to make any mama tired ,withdrawn and feel @ times down in the dumbs trying to keep all in tact. that would be me . the daily stress of current events has taken it's toll on me and I AM TRYING MY HARDEST .
I share what I feel is ok with the readers and the rest well is off the record and personal many of you don't know the day to day events that have taken place just like I am sure I do not know what is up with you all as well. I will never ask personal questions nor will I judge any one for that matter, I feel that no one is perfect and we need to be happy in our own skin , however I do get Ticked at certain behaviors that I see, I get annoyed at people who I thought I knew and well turns out that they are not who they claim to be , It is truly upsetting and a shocker . I get upset by Judges , who apparently do not know who you really are , come on you meet one to three times and you really do not know the person inside out you can talk transparently and really not know anyone for that matter.
I have been a bit distance because I needed a break from the blogging world, I needed that family time back and less on the computer, I needed to deal with home issues don't jump to conclusions my marriage and family is 100 % perfect never better , we are solid as a rock, we so answer each others question really sole mates , but we have a family member not feeling well, and by the end of the day I'm tired.
I have let you all in on some facts that have happened in the past year, It was a stressful year on my family with the economy the way it was , my Hubby had a huge layoff @ his job, that effected us functionally , it effected the daily lives of my children , of myself starting out in a new business ( photography) I needed to think of what to do , we were losing our home and could not keep it as hard as we tried , we had to make the decision to move for the children they do come first and foremost and I NOR MY hubby WOULD DO ANYTHING TO HURT OR EFFECT THEM , we were invited to move in with my parents . I prayed about what direction to put my children in being I myself was not thrilled with the school district in this area, I was granted a new school invite for my daughter I and my daughter are thrilled . It was hard to get in and we and my daughter were thrilled , like any Private school well worth it .
Good does come out of BAD that is for sure .
What people don't know is how are they doing ? How are they making it? How are they handling the stress with Em's therapy , and the illness of a family member , How r they that is the main question ?
We are dealing with allot at this time but so is the whole nation , we all have issues and dilemma's close family illness and are dealing with death . many people around us are dealing with the effect of the economy, I know we are not alone , I know that I sit and Pray for others that they are well taken care of .
So what do I get ticked off at is when A Person you thought you knew well has to pick on all the issues and problems of others and does not look in the mirror, judges , accuses, and really does not know hey this is a friend, this is someone that is going through a lot at this time , this is a human being who deserves a right to have a off day , this is a person who may be dealing with issues that I AM NOT AWARE OF ,
Ever hear that phrase , the grass is always greener on the other side? HM I hear this loud and clear , they may look all together like they have it all going on well but really it is a front and well they do not have it together at all.
they may have the family , house car, job money but really it does not mean a darn thing @ all.
do they have God, do they live by the Bible rules , Do they live a sinful life and harm other's with their words or actions and never have regret .
These are all good questions and fears to have ......
I was reading one my Favorite Blogs no surprise Mckmamas and well I saw this TV interview , here or
OK so we all have dirty laundry that we are not proud of but if God intervenes and turns something so terrible into good then gosh who are you to judge . what we type and donate info is our own personal business and there has to be a line but man the comments and actions lately on other bloggs is hurtful and uncalled for . Before you hit or send a comment think Is a this what I WOULD WANT SAID TO ME IS THE THE VERBAL ACTION God THE FATHER WOULD USE OR LIKE FOR THAT MATTER.
Is this who I want to be this hurtful verbal person acting others and not being there to see the issues at hand .
I pray for mckmamas family more now then ever I pray for the kids and the stress that I can take a toll on them hey , we lost a lot this year and gained allot as well . two amazing parents that are taking my family in all 4 of us , having to change the way we live , the means the daily actions we would take , eat out less , buckle down pay off bills ect .
to end this please think and treat others how you would want to be treated , every one deserves that . and if someone sees the wrong admits to it and is trying well then they deserve a fair shoot at happiness as well . and with God in the center of your life them all things are possible.
peace and love .
1 comment:
I was thinking about you just the other day. Glad all is ok and that you and your family are doing good. would love to see some pictures you have been taking.
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